Raymond P. Toates


December 10, 1934 - May 10, 2017

Raymond Paul Toates, age 82, passed away on Wednesday, May 10, 2017.

Raymond Paul was born December 10, 1934, to Edythe and William Toates on the family homestead in Colman, S.D. He was the oldest of seven children and worked on the farm with his parents and family. In 1969, he moved his wife and four daughters to southwest Missouri to start a new career. He worked for Springfield City Utilities for 27 years and was supervisor in Water and Meter Service, retiring in 1998.

Ray and LaNell married in 1977 and celebrated their 40th anniversary on April 2. He adopted her three children and loved them as his own.

He enjoyed the outdoors, working with his hands, singing in the choir, listening to his wife play the piano, gardening, traveling, telling a good joke, discussing politics or the latest book he had read, but most of all he enjoyed being surrounded by his large family.

He showed by example how to live a godly life and was always encouraging his family to do the right thing.

He was preceded in death by his father in 1994, his mother, his brother John and his daughter Jeanne R. Fuller.

He is survived by his wife, six children and their spouses; Deborah Brown (Llewellyn), Patricia McMullen (Steven), Sandra Rhoades (Richard), Kim Deren (Mike), Aaron Toates (Karen), and Phillip Toates (Whitney), and son-in-law Ed Fuller (Beth); 24 grandchildren and 26 great-grandchildren, his siblings: Joseph Toates (Georgianna), Lois Fahl (Joe), Helen Adams (Jim), Betty Powers (Paul) and Phyllis Smith (Dan).

There will be a private family burial at Rosedale Valley Memorial Gardens, Nixa, Mo., at 10:00 a.m. on May 19, followed by a memorial service at Seminole Baptist Temple, Springfield, Mo., at 11:00 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of him at https://www.samaritanspurse.org/

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